User blog comment:Loudsplash100000/Something that's bother me.../@comment-1333071-20111117200345

Here's my oh-so-appreciated opinion:

If you have to say "No offense, but..." or "I don't want to start a fight!", you should seriously think about what you're going to say and HOW you say it. If you need to say those things, it's going to hurt somebody and make them mad. And they want to state their anger, obviously, who doesn't? So they will and the fight will begin. It's nobody's fault but the person who had to use that term to make it supposedly "okay."

If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all, or at least make it constructive. "I don't like this, but you can make it better/I like this." It's not that hard. For every negative thing, find a positive. It's a perfectly acceptable way to live life, because it allows you to see all sides of the situation. It's not like saying "EVERYTHING IS AMAZING! :D", and it's not like saying "Everything sucks. D:". It's saying "I don't like this, maybe I can change it."

So with that in mind, go on with your life. Maybe you'll learn a lesson or two, and while you're doing it, you can be nice and not offend anybody.

~Forest Out